When it comes to dating a fvckboy, I'm pretty sure we've all done it. Whether purposely or unwittingly, we've all been on the receiving end of a fvckboy and his nonsense. It's sad but true, that we all fall for a fvckboy now and then, and we're left wondering how we got here, stuck on a fvckboy. So, how do you turn a fvckboy into a real man? Well, to be honest, it isn't always possible to do this but if you insist on trying, patience is going to be key throughout the process. Do not have sex with them, don't be too available, and keep doing your own thing - for starters. You can never start out by making things all about them. Be your most confident self, draw solid lines in the sand, and make plans that will force you to get to know each other better. If you keep things light, you'll be able to let them take their course, and find out if this is what you really want. Keep reading, because Hookupcloud.com has got these steps listed right here. Take a look through, and be prepared to be patient - but you should also be prepared to walk away, because for starters - that's the mindset you're going to need if you hope to survive this process.

Realistically speaking, changing a fvckboy into a man is no easy task, but you can do it by being patient, and forcing him to play a different game than the one he's so used to playing - and winning. First thing's first though. Do you really want to do this? This may be a question that you don't really want to consider, but when it comes to fvckboy territory, you do need to consider it. Are you doing this because you really care for this guy? Are you just looking for a challenge? Are you actually into him, or is it just a physical thing? Consider all of these things before deciding to move forward with your fvckboy quest, because at the end of the day, once turned, the fvckboy will become your responsibility in a a sense. Yes, he's called a fvckboy for a reason, but he's also a person who has feelings, too. So, if your'e not looking to open him up and keep him, then you need to think twice about what you want to do here. It's not okay for him to hurt women, but it's not okay for you to hurt him, either.

This means exactly what you think it does. Sure, he's really hot and you're incredibly attracted to him, but that's exactly why you can't give it up to him. Many other women have been down this road before you, and you can bet they gave it up, and he moved on. If you want to set yourself apart, the first step to doing that, is to keep your pants on. Most guys will tell you that the woman they finally fell for, wasn't the one who gave it up easy to them. The longer you spend time together, without getting intimate, the better you will get to know each other, and find your common ground. There will always be that element of excitement there between the two of you as well, and you want to make sure that he has a chance to experience how much fun that excitement can be with the right person. If you're into him, you'll wait, and the longer he has to wait, the more into you he's likely to end up being. So, be patient.

Don't plan your days with him in mind. Don't wait to hear from him before making plans, and don't ever break other plans you might have, to accommodate his schedule. You're setting the tone right now, and you have a life. If he asks you to get together and you are otherwise engaged, let him know that and suggest that you try to and together another time. Is he likely at this point to message someone else? Probably. Yes. You can't let that bother you, though. Change takes time and if you're always making yourself available for him on his timetable, that's always going to be the expectation. A very bad way to get things started. Don't be afraid to let him know you're busy. He will ask you to get together again. Chances are, he'll even want to aim for a specific date that's coming up, and if that works for you, go for it. Make sure he knows that you've got things going on in your life too, and that your world isn't going to stop, just because he is available. Continue living your life and going about your business. A woman with her own things on the go is very sexy! Which brings us to the next point.

You can bet he's going to do his, so don't work your life around him. Do your own thing. Don't spend your day waiting for him to call or message you, and don't hold out on making plans on Saturday, just because you know he might want to make plans. If a guy wants to make plans with you, he will. Do your own thing, and see where he naturally fits in to the equation. Keep your solo reading time, don't skip those lessons, and pick up that extra shift at work when they call. If you don't already have plans with him, you're life still needs to go on. Maybe in the future he'll reach out to you in advance, and make you the first person he calls. If you drop everything for him whenever he becomes available though, that will never be the case. For some reason, guys are hardwired somewhere inside, to enjoy a bit of the chase. So, let him chase you a bit, and don't return the favor. You're got lots to do, after all.

When the two of you do make plans, make plans that don't have a likely potential of leading to anything sexual. Go out for dinner, catch a movie, go bowling (why not?). It's important that you spend as much time as possible getting to know each other before anything physical rears its head on the horizon, so take your time. At this point, you're getting to know him better, too. You might decide that this guy, no matter how gorgeous he may be, just isn't for your. On the other hand, if you find yourself falling harder, look for signs that he may be falling for you, too. You'll know by the little things that he does - or doesn't do for you. Being out and doing things together is a great way to keep on top of how he's behaving towards you. If you have a good feeling, keep taking your time and moving forward. If you don't have a good feeling, and you feel like he's just putting in the time to finally get you in the sack, then you should really consider bailing. All things considered though, if he's held out for this long, there's a good chance that he does have genuine interest in you. No fvckboy with a ton of options is going to waste any more time than he needs to on someone who isn't going to be a sure thing.

This can't be taken seriously enough. It's important to be yourself, because after all, you want to know whether or not he really likes you for you. Don't be nervous about it either, at least not on the outside. Be confident. You're a cool person, and you've obviously got his interest, because he's spending this time with you, and things are going pretty well, right? You don't need to be defensive or guarded, but you should really be confident in yourself, and let him see that you value yourself - and so should he. Make it clear that you're not going to be an easy conquest for him, and don't feed into the games that he's likely to try and play with you. Once you take your cards off of the table, he's in the game alone, so make sure that you're not participating in any games or childishness. Again, you are setting the tone, and you need to start making your boundaries clear. You can do this subtly, for sure. Just make sure you do it.

There are certain behaviors that the average fvckboy is sure to exhibit, and it's important that you do not play into these. Set your boundaries, and make them crystal clear! As soon as you give him one inch in the games department, you can bet he'll try and push for more. It's not necessary to let him do this. Stick to your standards. Again, this can be done in subtle, yet effective ways, and simply not participating will force him to try another approach, so stick to your guns. He needs to know that you're different, and that you're not going to be participating in his fvckboy games, so he needs to treat you differently. If he's interested, and by now, it's very likely that he is, he'll take the time to figure out how he needs to approach you, and you'll both be better off for it. The more solid your lines in the sand are, the more effort he will ultimately need to put into you.

This might sound like a major game in itself, but right now it simply isn't. Do not tell him how you feel. You'll know when the right time is, and when that time comes - like on your wedding day - you can tell him how you feel. The fvckboy loses all interest the minute they know they've got you though, and even if he's somewhat invested at this point, showering him with too much information about your feelings is not a good idea. Take your time in this department, and make sure that if there is any declaration of feelings, that they come from him first. You've taken a chance simply by getting this far with him, and on some level, he's probably aware of this. Keep things going the way they are on your end for now. At this point, he knows all he needs to know, and you don't need to let him know any more than that.

Lets be honest, your feelings are intense. Your heart starts racing whenever you hear his voice, see his message, or he walks into a room. All these things considered though, you still need to keep things light. You don't need to play the aloof part so well that he starts to think you're not interested. Show your interest and affection when it's warranted, but don't take it any further than that. Ironically, the most effective way to steal the heart of a game player, is to simply not engage in their game, and keep your own cards close to your chest. Sound exhausting? Well, this is what you signed up for, as soon as you tried to turn a fvckboy into a long-term thing. If he's worth it, you'll hang in there.

You've laid all of the necessary groundwork up to this point, and you're doing a great job at it. He's still around, and you're still spending time together. Where things go from here is ultimately up to the two of you, and how you move forward from here. Be cool about things, and let them run their course. The truth is, whether it's with a fvckboy or not, you never know where a relationship is going to end up heading, so just enjoy it. Go with the flow, and take the next steps when they feel right. If you don't end up stealing his heart that's okay. If you do though, and you move forward together, you'll be really glad that you kept your cool, and above all that you were patient. We hope it turns into all you hoped it would be.

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